I love that people seem to think I have a negative view on relationships because I don’t run into them like I’m on a slip and slide with blinders. People in their 20’s seem to think that they need to get married because the clock is ticking. What they don’t realize, is how much people change when they hit their 30’s. There should be rush for finding someone when you are a smart, beautiful woman who has an entertaining lifestyle. Enjoy it because he will come whether it’s sooner, or later.

I just met this woman in her later 30’s and she is in the middle of a divorce. She said she had been married for 14 years, and found out her husband had been cheating on her for past 2 years. Also, she told me that she really had not been in love with him for a while now, but felt comfortable and they had kids. She said, “If I only realized how young I was in my mid 20’s and realized how much people change, I never would have gotten married. I realized there was no rush and now I’m paying for it.”

If you take care of yourself and create an interesting lifestyle, you won’t feel in such a rush to find someone. A lot of people are leeches coming in to a relationship. They say, “When I’m with him, I’m happy. “ That makes me think, “Why aren’t you happy just alone? Do you need someone to be happy?”

I definitely believe that living is about sharing, but I don’t think there should be a huge rush. People live to be in there 80’s, so enjoy your 20’s and 30’s.

Mr Troy