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How to be more Approachable

Posted by: mrtroy in dating on

I love that women are socially way smarter than men but they can't figure out "why won’t he approach me?" When I say he, I mean the guy that you want to come talk to you. You see him at the Starbucks, your favorite bar, or at school all the time but you can't get him to come talk to you. Why is that? Are you sending off bad signals? Just walking by him is definitely not going to do the trick. Here are some things to think about.

1. A lot of the nice guys will not approach you without a reason ex.( you drop something  for them to pick up or they have some kind of "just so happens"


Okay, the most attractive thing to most men besides a small waist line and great breasts, ha ha just kidding. Well not kidding but anyways, is going to be when she has passion for herself. How many times have you been in a relationship (or dating) and probably a little bit after you've had sex, you realize you want to sacrifice more of your own time for him? That's when you go wrong!!!!

We know that as guys, we will be incredibly nice and work very very very hard to start a sexual relationship but after that, if you change and stop being the girl we first met, we change our attitudes.


Ok, 1. If you ever call him before he calls you, he would have to be a moron to not know you are interested. If you really like a guy and don't want to play any games at all. Call him, forget it! Who cares? If he plays games, this lets you get away from him without being emotionally attached. Face it, you're a girl and guys hit on you 24/7, not hard to meet a new guy.

If guys wait 3 days, please don't call him back. What a tool! He's been watching way too much TV and needs to get a life. I personally do 2 things when I get a girls number. I have a reason why I’m getting their number. We've


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